Feldhanh surveyed many, many, men to help women understand them better. These men have opened their minds and allowed her to see into the deepest depths of their minds where they hide they most sacred secrets.
Their biggest secret is…..RESPECT. They all want to be respected and they perceive being loved by being respected.
I know it sounds easy and most of us think we are already respecting our men but, there are some huge mistakes, we as women, make on a pretty regular basis. We can bombard them with things when they walk through the door. We can push them to have a conversation even while they are walking away and need time to think. We can get emotional and blow up and all the while we are doing these things all we are doing is showing them that we don’t respect them. Men have a lot to deal with (even when we think they don’t) and we can make their lives fairly hard when we don’t understand that.
Feldhanh has revised an already wonderful book on how to love the men in our lives and create the relationships that we have always wanted. This book is even good if you are raising a son. You can raise him showing him the respect he will need to find when searching for a wife later in life.
***I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of this review.***
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